Gender
Justice, Gender Equality, Women’s Rights – a chance to act God!
Allah has placed Jannah at the feet of women, can I snatch that away
from my wife's feet? Even if I scrape, scratch or lick the underside of
her feet the whole of my life, will that Jannah ever be mine?
Allah's advice to my kids is to care for their mother three times more
than me; in fact they do so even if they are unaware of this because
Allah has perhaps filled their hearts with much more love for their
mother than for their father. Now, how can your gender equality
campaign provide justice to me?
If only God created men to bear children ... the "Gender Equality",
"Women's Rights", or "Gender Justice" movements would not have been
required, nor would women need to be provoked into "confronting the
men" ... women would be the bully instead! I think the suggested
conditioning of the male mind doesn't begin at home, but much earlier,
in the heavens!! if only God created the men and women equal, none
would be able to bully the other, nor would any of them need to
subjugate ...., both being equal would wrestle along the whole of their
life, if at all they could bear each other!! Ek meyaan meN do talwaar!!
Man would bear one child, woman another, a perfect balance; but alas!!
My sister's mother would be a man, and my mother a woman. I hope it's
not getting too confusing!! Sorry for that ... men and women, pls
forgive me equally!!
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Bullying is in human nature.
The
stronger one (humans as well as animals) always bullies the weaker one.
If the weaker one agrees to play second fiddle (in management
philosophy, it's called division of labour), love and peace (backed by
sympathy, maybe) may prevail, else the scene could be similar to what
you have related already. We see this everyday in office ... men
bullying men, they don't necessarily have to bully a woman ... they
could easily be bowled over by women colleagues. Women bullying women
is even an uglier scene everywhere, be it the office or home.
Stronger families or clans bully the weaker ones, same is true for
nations.
This is the way
we are created .... all living beings ... so why complain? And,
complain to whom? By provoking one party to open a front against the
other, we are not solving the problem at all, we are only opening new
frontiers ... to no avail. 
The liberated
women are suffering far more because they are fighting the battle on
more than one front, and finally find themselves shattered, leaving the
society in tatters - they are exploited in office, at home, in the
streets.
Compromise is the key to happy life in this temporary phases of our
being. If men did not compromise their freedom in favour of women, no
social fabric could be imagined. If women did not sacrifice their
freedom and joy for their children, procreation would stop and this
phase of life would come to a screeching halt. It's the combined
responsibility of men and women to try to remove the discrepancies,
disputes, disparities ... together like the two eyes. Imperfections
would exist, we can't eliminate them; we aren't God ....!
For water to flow naturally, one side should be lower than the other;
love flows in similar fashion - the best example is that from parents
to children. Most men have to bow before their women to receive an
affectionate kiss.
Aap
se jhuk ke jo milta hoga
Us
ka qad aap se uncha hoga ...
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