BaKhabar, April 2013, Page-6 [Why did Allah call people of Makkah as Mushrik? + How to Show Gratitude for the Blessing of Motherhood]

Why did Allah call people of Makkah as Mushrik?

.... By Siddi Rizwan Damad <srdamad@gmail.com>

Praise be to the LORD of all that exists.

What is KUFR, KAFIR, SHIRK and MUSHRIK?
KAAFIR is the one who denies and conceals the truth. The basic meaning of the word kufr in Arabic is concealment. SHIRK means devoting worship to anyone or anything other than ALLAH.

MUSHRIK is the one who associates partner with ALLAH.

Dictionary meaning of ASSOCIATE is “to join as a partner, friend, or companion”
Dictionary meaning of DEVOTE (verb) “ to commit by a solemn act” or “dedicate an act of worship”

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In real life WHY DO WE ASSOCIATE WITH OTHER PEOPLE? Very simple for HELP .. to get HELP when required, can anybody think of anything else..what are the reasons for forming ASSOCIATIONS?

Kufr may take the form of denying and rejecting, but the mushrik may also believe in Allaah. This is the difference between the mushrik and the kaafir.
Kufr is denial and concealment of the truth, such as one who denies that prayer is obligatory, or that zakaah is obligatory, or that fasting Ramadaan is obligatory, or one who denies that zina is haraam, or that drinking intoxicants is haraam, or that disobeying one’s parents is haraam, and so on.

Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Between a man and shirk and kufr there stands his giving up prayer.” Narrated by Muslim in his Saheeh from Jaabir ibn ‘Abd-Allaah (may Allaah be pleased with him). And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The covenant that differentiates us from them is prayer; whoever gives it up is a kaafir.” Narrated by Imam Ahmad, Abu Dawood, al-Tirmidhi, al-Nasaa’i and Ibn Maajah with a saheeh isnaad from Buraydah ibn al-Husayb (may Allaah be pleased with him). And Allaah is the Source of strength.

WHY DID ALLAH CALL PEOPLE OF MAKKAH AS MUSHRIK?

All muslims are aware that during Jahiliya (period before Prophet hood), there were people who had names like ABDULLA, ABDUL MUTTALIB, and so on. It means that they were aware of ONE ALLAH. Then what was the reason that Allah called them MUSHRIK.

We need to think friends, are we muslims also walking on the same path of those mushriks, we also believe in ONE ALLAH as they used to believe. Lets see what Quran says, why did ALLAH called them MUSKRIKS..
Surah Al Isra, Verse 40:

What! Has your Rabb preferred to give you sons and adopted angels as daughters for Himself? Certainly you are uttering a monstrous statement.

Verse 42: Tell them: If there were other gods besides Him as the mushrikin say, they would have certainly tried to find a way to dethrone the Master of the Throne.

Verse 57: Those to whom they pray, themselves seek the means of access to their Rabb - trying as to who can be more near - they hope for His Mercy and fear His punishment, for the punishment of your Rabb is terrible indeed.

Surah Yunus, Verse 31: Ask them (mushreek): "Who provides your sustenance from the heaven and from the earth? Who has control over hearing and sight? Who brings forth the living from the dead and the dead from the living? Who regulates the universe?" They will soon reply: "Allah." Say: "Why do you not then fear Him for you going against the truth?"

Sura Al Ahqaf, Verse 5: And who could be more astray than the one who invokes those deities besides Allah who cannot answer him till the Day of Resurrection - which, in fact, are not even aware that they are being invoked?

Surah Al Imran, Verse 60: Say: "O people of the Book! Let us get together on what is common between us and you: that we shall worship none but Allah; that we shall not associate any partners with Him; that we shall not take from among ourselves any lords beside Allah." If they reject your invitation then tell them: "Bear witness that we are Muslims (who have surrendered to Allah)."

Here the Point to think is even Jews and Christians believed in ONE ALLAH as mentioned in Quran but took ESSA (AS) and UZAIR (AS) as sons of ALLAH, meaning the ultimate power is with ALLAH only, and his sons are their helpers.

Associating with ALLAH doesn’t only mean that we WORSHIP IDOLS, what is the reason Mushrik needed partner with ALLAH, simple reason for HELP. They used to ask the idols of their pious people, angels, messengers, etc to HELP them as they were close to ALLAH.

ALL THE PIOUS PEOPLE CAME CLOSER TO ALLAH COZ OF FOLLOWING QURAN AND SUNNAH. NOTHING ELSE.

Please analyze are we DEVOTING OUR ACTS OF WORSHIP to others than ALLAH, hence throwing ourselves to commit shirk.

Think what are the ACTS OF WORSHIP…we devote…to pious people..

REMEMBER THE ONLY DESTINATION AS SAID BY ALLAH FOR SHIRK IS JAHANNAM.

And ALLAH knows the best .

kalma+go+mushrik

How to Show Gratitude for the Blessing of Motherhood

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... By Sofia Nasir

Motherhood is a blessing which has been given to us by Allah   (glorified and exalted be He). It’s full of ups and downs, tears and laughs. At times tiring, other times energising. Let’s face it, being a mother in the 21st century is not easy; so here are a few tips to keep you on your toes.
What is motherhood? The responsibility of nurturing a child. The Prophet   (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) stated: ’Paradise lies at the feet of your mother’ [Sunan An-Nasâ’i]. This clearly indicates the importance of mothers and the high status they were given by Allah (glorified and exalted be He) and the Prophet   (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him). Mothers are the first point of comfort in a horrible situation, and therefore motherhood should not be taken as a light matter.
A man came to the Prophet   (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him)and said, ‘O Messenger of God! Who among the people is the most worthy of my good companionship?’ The Prophet   (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said: ‘Your mother.’ The man said, ‘Then who?’ The Prophet   (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said: ‘Then your mother.’ The man further asked, ‘Then who?’ The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said: ‘Then your mother.’ The man asked again, ‘Then who?’ The Prophet   (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said: ‘Then your father.’ [Muslim].
While there is an abundance of tips on fulfilling one’s role as a mother, here are a few important ones I have compiled for you:
1. Pray to Allah: Make regular dua to Allah, the power of dua is so immense. Say: “My Lord! Grant me righteous offspring.” [Quran: Chapter 37, Verse 100] as much as you can.
2. Strive to be caring and compassionate: Be patient with your child whatever the situation. Always remember children are innocent and need your mercy. The following was reported about the Messenger of Allah   (glorified and exalted be He) : “I never saw anyone who was more compassionate towards children than Allah’s Messenger (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him). His son Ibrahim was in the care of a wet nurse in the hills around Madinah. He would go there, and we would go with him, and he would enter the house, pick up his son and kiss him, then come back.” [Muslim]
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The Prophet   (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said: “A’isha, verily Allah is kind and He loves kindness and confers upon kindness which he does not confer upon severity and does not confer upon anything else besides it (kindness). [Muslim]
3. Praise them regularly: This is a very powerful technique and will make them proud of themselves and confident.
4. Ensure your child loves Allah   (glorified and exalted be He): Reminding them of all the blessings Allah   (glorified and exalted be He) has showered upon them i.e. the eyes, ears, tongue, legs, etc. the list is endless. This will instill only love and make them appreciative and grateful towards Allah   (glorified and exalted be He). Also, in adulthood, it will incline them to the way of Allah   (glorified and exalted be He) inshallah.
5. Be very friendly: This includes having regular talks about random things, this will make them feel comfortable with you in the long run. Also play with your child as much as possible; trust me – they love this kind of thing.
6. Teach them responsibility: From a young age give them responsibilities i.e. for their toys and rooms.
7. Keep them away from gadgets: In this fast growing environment it’s so hard to keep up with technology for adults let alone children. Have we stopped to wonder how this is affecting our lifestyles? In the name of efficiency and effectiveness, a new gadget is released for kids almost every day. You should try and encourage your child to play outside rather than on the PSP or iPhone. Encourage them to read a book rather than playing on the computer. I found that the more gadgets a child has, the lazier they become.
8. Inspire them: Rather than making them fantasize about Spiderman and Barbie, tell them about real heroes like Abu Baqr as Sadiq, Umar, Uthman and Ali   (may Allāh be pleased with them). For the girls, Asiya, Maryam, Khadiha and Fatima [ranham]. Tell them how these heroes and heroines strove for Allah   (glorified and exalted be He) and how they spread Islam.

9. Involve them in acts of worship: If they grow up with your Islamic character, it won’t be a burden for them when they are older. Pray with them, recite Quran together, and discuss Islamic issues with them as a family. If they grow up seeing these values in effect from childhood, they will easily accept them when they grow up. They will understand it’s the best way of life.
10. Differentiate between halal and haram: You need to explain to a child what is permissible to them from Allah   (glorified and exalted be He) and what is forbidden. They need to know in terms of eating haram and halal, as well as actions that are halal or haram like free mixing etc.
11. Bedtime stories: This has been a very popular way of putting a child to sleep. You can read to them the dua’s of sleeping and the importance of it. Explain to them how the angels will protect them by reciting ayat ul kursi as prescribed by the Rasool of Allah   (glorified and exalted be He).
Something to keep you motivated through your journey of motherhood:
The Messenger   (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) of Allah   (glorified and exalted be He) said “whoever takes care of two girls until they reach adulthood, He and I will come together on the day of resurrection and he interlaced his fingers.” (Meaning in paradise) [Al adab Al mufrad]
I as a mother have faced many challenges, and above are the things I felt worked for my children and made motherhood a little easier SubhaanAllah. Please share your own tips to help others in their motherhood journey!
About the Author:
Sofia Nasir is a mother of three, alhumdulillah. She is a student of knowledge and looking into writing as a career.